您已经听说过有毒的男性气质，但现在人们在谈论有毒的女性气质

他们说的是：

1。“由于有毒的男性气质几乎是在说成为男人的'正确'方式是要成为男子气概，所以我认为有毒的女性气质是同样的，因为它与某些成为女人的行为有关“对别人。”

-u/strict_lab3333

2。“对我来说，这意味着女性对其他女性的女性与她们不同。有些女人对让您知道如何使用育儿对您的育儿方式毫无感觉。X产品或让您的孩子做y特殊的事情。它确实变得有毒，尤其是在有人分娩后。”

-u/eCheeno2340

3。"There's just a ton of shaming everywhere, especially online. 'You’re planning on not medicating? God, you’re not getting a medal. You’re medicating? Wow, you’re so weak. You’re not breastfeeding? What, are you abusing your child?! You’re breastfeeding? Do you spit on moms who can’t?! You’re going back to work? What’s wrong with you? Don’t you love your child?'"

-u/darkovika

4。“即使是简单的事情，就像'您有简单的出路'进行剖腹产（大腹部手术并不容易）。不支持其他女性的女性令人恶心。”

-u/bittersweetfeline

5。“当工作场所的妇女形成集团并削减他们认为是局外人的任何人时。”

-U/Bringbackrobotwars

6。“是母亲的人，他们像废话一样对待他人，然后说自己是'妈妈'的义。夫人，您只是在女服务员尖叫，因为您孩子的Mac和奶酪中有西兰花，而您的孩子不喜欢西兰花。”

-U/Zanovar，，，，u/gaimanitepkat，，，，

7。"Women minimizing other women’s pain. Happens all the time in health care, for instance. Somewhat of an issue because people don’t realize that not all periods are the same. One woman can spend three days in the fetal position with stabbing pain and another be like, 'Period? Oh, that drop of blood? Yeah, no big deal.'"

-u/unageousmoose8，，，，u/pistachio_queen

8。“因自然功能而感到羞耻。我知道男人也这样做（在某种程度上），但我觉得女性更有可能判断身体头发，皱纹，白发等。”

-u/dorimealbedo

9。“对环尺寸的过度竞争不健康。”

-u/错误插头

10。"Probably the culture around eating. When I was 17–18, a few friends kept saying how much more attractive I’d be if I lost weight, how that’s why most guys weren’t into me, how I’d regret not being skinny in college, etc. My BMI was slightly under 25, so I wasn’t overweight. But I was close to it, especially compared to them. So, I basically became anorexic from 18–20 just because the feedback was like a high. I recovered, but not enough to make my mom and others happy, even though my BMI was 22–23. This continued for years between friends and family, and it was exhausting cycling between being too skinny or not average enough."

-u/screaming_weak

11。“约会的双重标准。我与母亲亲自听到了很多，但是如果她的男朋友不告诉她的地方，她会吓坏了并扔发脾气（是的，从字面上看）。但是，如果他问她任何事情，那么他就是试图控制她和作弊的冲洗。”

-U/Vampawa

12。"Women who think other women who enjoy cooking, child rearing, and homemaking are perpetuating stereotyped gender roles enforced by the patriarchy. Tearing other women down because what they enjoy doesn’t fit into the tiny box of what YOUR version of feminism should be is toxic femininity to the max."

-U/Oichbro550

13。“被告知我不是一个真正的女人，因为我不想要孩子。一个女人告诉我这个。”

-u/an-nepty路

14。“妇女羞辱女人没有化妆。”

-U/Minorihaaku

15。“当我们遍布男人和男孩时，同时称其为'现代女权主义'。我们不必仅仅使女性平等地解构和破坏一切男性。这实际上是平等的相反，应该对每个人冒犯。”

-U/Dancingassclown

您如何看待这些例子？您对什么是“有毒女性气质”有其他想法吗？在评论中告诉我们！

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